Bullying may start when we are youngsters; when we look for holes in others defences. After this point it is a case of perpetrating, whenever the opportunity arises. Forcibly abusing the victim just to humiliate him is not only an injustice but also an ugly way to get attention that will never be tolerated in life. If this is how you are and you can recognise this trait, then it is probably not too late to make a noticeable and welcomed change. When one can be engrossed with awareness, then any form of aggression will just dissolve.

It is possible when we become adults to realise that being an abuser has resulted from some form of inadequacy whilst we were younger. Being a bully as a child will never leave our system and will materialise later when we run into someone where we find we can amuse ourselves by looking for holes in their emotional defences.